People often wonder what if? If you fall in that category of human kind, thats sad. Lots of people wonder and stay away from stuff they really want to do, due to that kinds of questions. I see myself as an outgoing person who goes for what I desire. I never hesitate to what i want; therefore, Iwould love for everyone to think the same. However, getting back in topic people often think of a place as in a get away. Some may face the fact that it takes you out from reality and its drama free. What Im referring to is vacations the place people go to rest and lay back. Vacations are a great way to focus in something else, likewise it in family problems, school, work situatios, girl friends and boy friends and etc. Vacations also makes an awsome reason to leave and come back to where ever you belong as an new you. They provide you with some kind of meditating process which helps you think about how to do wrong, good. In other words, vacations are very well needed throughout the year of everyones life process. The reason for it are explained in detail by many company bosses. They understand that the employee or such gets mad and frustated of the same thing they do all day year round, so therefore they inforce their employees to take vacations and relax for a month or maybe acouple of weeks. Personally I agree with that because at times I feel that I deserve vacations as well for all the hard work I go through in my day to day process.

Why is it that there are people who don't care about others? Everywhere I go there are many people that take advantage of those who are nice. Appearances and motions expresses the way someone is. However, you can't quite judge someone just by there appearances on how there personality is until you get to know that person. For some reason, those who are nice always get hurt. However, not only are the nice people who are taken advantage, but also those that disrepect others also get hurt. ofcourse, each one of us make an important decision where we trust others. Ourselves make that decision to open up with others and express what is in our mind, which then makes it comfortable to be with. But when or how do we know when is it the right moment to open your heart and give all the trust to someone? No one in this world is perfect, but that shouldn't stop anyone from giving there trust to others. For example, those who in the future will come to your life may not be the same as those in the past who took advantage of the kindness, trust, and love that you gave to those who disappointed you. Overall, those who have a conscience forgive those who hurt them. We all know what is right and wrong and well we dont want the wrong to happen to oneself, so why not treat everyone the same way we want them to treat us?

Beer! Why is it that everybody like beer? In every party or a barbecue there is beer. Even if its a little 4 year old birthday party there is beer present no matter what. There are many who even drink beer on a regular day basis. What is it about beer that gets people to buy and drink beer everyday? For some or maybe mostly for every one who drinks beer, drink because they like the taste and it is a different way to celebrate just like champagne. However, many people drink to have a "good time" and forget about there problems, which doesn't really get rid of any ones problems. There way of having a "good time" is getting drunk and get out of control. Then the next morning they wake up vomiting and have a bad headache which adds up to more problems. Over all, drinking beer is somewhat an object that it has the power for some to
forget about there problems or drink beer just for celebration. In the end, beer has its limits. But some go overboard and take advantage in drinking and concludes into health problems. Then those who have problems just made even more problems to themselves. Beer is always going to be in every party no matter what.

How do you explain that empty feeling you get when nothing goes right? At times myself get these feelings that can not be explained. Although I know its a life process I still ask myself why? Days I see myself feeling really down and blue, yet the good side is that at times I feel extraordinary good. I understand that in order for something good to establish in my life, something bad has to happen. Take for instance, you have a storm in your city and its been raining all week. Therefore all of the sudden it stops rainning then that occurs. Theirs a pleasant day, all sunny and hot like if nothing ever happend. Likewise having feelings are needed at times everything can not be perfect in life, if that was the case life would be soo boring and drastic. For the same reason thats why I think god put us lesson to see how strong could the human kind be and then after that reward them as well. Because in fact everybody experiences downs and ups in their life, yet some people may think it occurs them way more often but in reality is the same process for everyone but just in variety of ways. As a result people should see things in a positive way because the bad is always going to be their but its up to that person to participate to change their way of life.

Ever wonder how in many cultures the traditions are quite the same. For example, chinese culture and mexican culture want the family to always be together and do the best for themselves. On the other hand, in the American tradition the family are more independent. For instance, in their family once their children turn 18 they are adults and can do whatever they want with their lives. However, in the mexican and chinese tradition, children are not quite free to do anything even though they are 18. The reason I believe chinese parents and mexican parents do see them as adults is because they have a hard time to let go of their children and they worry that something bad might happen to them. Parents need to be able to believe in their children that they know what is best for them and to have faith in them as well. Sooner or later children are going to move on with their lives. But of course that does not mean that children are going to forget about their parents. In each culture parents are there to guide their children to have a great life, but in order to that they need to let go of them and let them find who they are and what they want in their lives. Nobody may get it perfect the first time, but there should be no reason why to give up easily. Each culture have in some way a similar aspect to each other.

Have you ever wonder how life will be if there was no transportation? If there was no cars, buses, airplanes, trains, boats, etc. it would take longer to get to your destination. Life will be more difficult than it is right now if we didn't have transportation. For example, having a car benefits us into getting to our destination easier and faster. I am able to go to school then from school head straight to my job where i dont have to worry about being late. Even though buses may take a bit longer or have to leave a bit early from the house, buses still help those who can't afford having a car. But having none of these transportations will make everyones life difficult. In my opinion, people would be lazy to go to places because they would think about how long it would take them to get to a certain place. Also, since there would be no transportation people would stay together more in a community. They would make everything they want to be close to them. Imagining if there was no transportation the world would be a cleaner environment if you realize it. There would be no pollution at all. Freeways or airports wouldn't exsist. But ofcourse, the dream to go to paris or somewhere that is crossing the ocean would be difficult. If transportation didn't exsist, our lives would be very different from today.

While i was watching the news I notice how the weather is changing. From having cold and raining days, we are beginning to have warm and sunny days. Two days ago I noticed how beautiful the sky is now. The weather is perfect. Even though I like cold and raining days, it is now the time for some spring weather. Now I am going to be more motivated to go to play soccer since the weather is warm. Since I go play in the evenings, the weather before will be very cold and windy. I couldn't play because i was cold, but either way i will still go. Now, this weather is perfect in the evenings. There is wind, but it is fresh. The weather today for example is motivating me to go to the beach. Hopefully in the weekend the weather is great and head to the beach. For some reason there are many people who hate warm or hot weather. For me, whether it is cold, raining, snowing, or hot, i like all type of weathers. i believe that if we only had one type of weather, we are all going to get tired it. That is why everyone loves California weather.

Why is it that some people are too lazy to get up in the morning? Out of all of my family, i am the only one who wakes up early everyday.All of my sisters are sleeping snoring and my parents too, while i am up fresh to begin the day. At the time that they all wake up, i have ate breakfast tooken a bath and fixed my bed. Even in the weekends, when I go out and come back home late, i still wake up early the next morning ready to start my day. Since I am up early, my morning routine is to go and wake my sisters up, even though it is a bit mean. There shouldnt be any excuse of not waking up early. In my point of view, waking up late and ready to start your day in the afternoon is waste of time. You are able to get more things done when you have start the day off since the morning. That is how people start to get lazier and lazier by the minute. Although many say that each person should at least sleep for up to 7 hours, i find it okay because we all need to rest for some hours each day. But this does not mean to sleep in all morning and be lazy to wake up. What it all takes for people to get up in the morning is motivation. When each person finds what motivates them to get up each day, there will be no more excuses on why not to get up in the morning. The motivation that i have is what gets me to wake up early in the morning.

have you ever wonder how many people in this world own a pet? this made wonder when one of my friends asked my sister to take care of her dog for a day. For some reason many people own dogs, cats, birds, lizards or hamsters, etc. I understand why they will own a dog, cat, birds, but a lizard or a hamster theres no point to me. people have pets in there house because they want to feel the love a pet. Sometimes people just love animals. How do people get the love from those that don't even move or make a sound? For example, birds chirp beautifully that brings happiness to the house and tho their owner. In some cases, birds chirp can get a bit annoying. However, a lizard doesn't do anything at all, just stick its tongue out and stay still in one place for a long time. When i was young, i remember telling my parents to get a dog for me. Since i bugged them a lot, they granted my wish. Once i had my pet for a week i didnt want to have it anymore. it was sad, but true. Since then, i never want to have pets in my life. The reason for this is because having a pet is more like having to take responsiblity of someone by feeding it, bathing, and clean after them. if you know what i mean by that. i agree with having the companion of a pet around the house, but there is also responibilty of having one too. i am not against those people who own pets, but in my point of view, I wouldnt consider having one.

Do you have a hobby or something to do in your time off? Although many would consider a no to this question due to the time people invest in work. However in my case is different I attempt to make time for everything in my mind. Therefore my hobby I love doing is skateboarding and playing soccer. As I practice these hobbies I seem to feel comfortable and good about myself. Soccer and skateboarding had thought me alot of valuable stuff. For example to never give up on what i want, and that practice always makes good. My hobbies help me release lots of stress due to the effort and participation I put into it. I get really into it that I just focus on the hobby then everything bad going around me. Therefore making the best out of a hobby helps me stay positive in life and also making choices in life; Even though the reason why I made those my hobbies is because as a children thats all I know. I would get home from school and go outside and play soccer and skateboard then. So thats why I think I kept doing or following those same habbits because of the impact it took place. As a children thats all I did so now that I became older I try and make them actually happend by keeping them updated and practicing it. Because the fact is that I can not live without them. In other words, having a hobby is a really good, possitive thing to do because the consequence of it are really good and the benefits that are offered aare great as well.

Its unexpected when the next one will hit, the amont of force in it or the width it will cover. I sit next to shore with a pretty girl I love so much pondering on what makes them so cool. The foam around them makes me even think more, what causes that. Although some are small and some big they all have the same purpose. As we sit and enjoy the day, we look at them and laugh. They seem to curve and twist in oppisite ways. At times I wonder why they have the privllege to be so free and float so freely. Seeing them float and work the way they do, makes me think why can I be like that; float without problems, pain, anger, or etc. Not to mention, the feeling you get when you go to it, the breeze that hits you while you and your love ones are viewing it. As if it makes a perfect combination for any occasion, if its a date looking at it makes it a good cause, if it's a family gathering as well. The curving, twisting, watery things i metion earlier are also known as waves are the ones doing all the impact in the beaches. The waves are part of the beach and without them their wouldn't be anything because thats what the water needs to call for attention and make the viewers alot more focus and also make them ponder in something positive while looking at them.

Should each one of us be selfish when it comes to helping others? I have thought about this question since i witnessed an elderly woman who had trouble putting her groceries inside her car and nobody surrounding her helped her. Many people believe in only caring about themselves. They would like other people to help them out, but not help them if they need. Many people believe in helping others. Whether it is some one they know or a stranger that may need the help that moment your there. I have had experience where in some cases, people do care about me and help me out when I needed. On the other hand, there are others who are selfish enough to just think about themselves. In my perspective, helping others when they need it will make one self a better person. Having the thought of have helped others in the past makes me have a positive attitude towards others. Also, there will be no guilt within yourself when you took the chance to help someone. One should remain an individual and hold onto personal believes and morals. When helping others, you have a better feeling about yourself. You will know that you have done something right. There would be some difficulties but you would know that you at least tried instead of doing nothing. Even though you did help someone or at least tried, you know that there will be no guilt feeling in you. Helping others would not come to you as an obligation, but as a believe that helping others is the right thing to do.

I have realized how our world has been sorrounded with many stories. There is not one person in the world that in their childhood they have heard many different folktales and stories by their parents. In every culture they have their own style of folktales and stories that they would share with their children, but they all have the same meaning of why parents share these stories with them. In every story parents share with their children the different type of values there are in each folktale and stories. Value can be defined as something that means a lot to someone and may have gained something. In this case, the folktales and stories that parents tell their children are stories for them to understand the values of life. For example, children can learn the value of being a good person would bring them good value. Many stories can show you some different type of calues that you gained from them. They can also be the most important to you because they are part of your culture. The folktales and stories had been passed from generation to generation, which would have an important value of them. As for me, all stories that were told to me when I was a child, have been passed on to my sisters. The stories that were told to us were stories that teached us the lesson to not talk to strangers and to be a good person with everyone. The value of these folktales and stories are something important to each person that mean a lot to them and learn different things or lessons that can be helpful in life.

Criticism has been part of this world, but how can we be able to avoid these criticisms from one another? Of course, it is a fact that everyone has their own opinion about how you should do, say or appear, wheter it is good or bad. We all have been victimes on criticizing others or have been criticized by others. The main point on criticizing is just showing your opinion on what you think about that person. But for many of us criticism plays a big role on how to keep it from not affecting us and also not affecting the other person. I believe that the best way to face these crticisms and the way we critize others is to be courteous. Not everyone in this world going to the have the same opinion about something because we all have our own set of mind and beliefs. Therefore, criticize them in a discerning way by listening to what there beliefs are. Whether I sometimes may not believe on the same thing as another person, arguing with the person wont change anything. But if nothing bad is ever said, then nothing good will ever get done. I also believe and will like to encourage others to not let the criticism get you down because that is just there opinion they have about who you are. Criticizing is done to just make you a stronger person on expressing who you are. It is never good to hide in expressing on what you believe. Be who you want to be and treat others the way you would want others to treat you. It is our job to not let others put us down because then we would not be the person who we truly are.

For a long time I have been thinking on how many people believe that they are not capable to make their dreams come true. When in reality everything is possible, of course if you have the faith in one self. The way that I have been brought up in this wrold by my parents is to never give my self up. Since I was a young teenager, about thirteen years old, i always want it to get a job, I already knew by then that I have the enthusiasm and the strength to make my dreams come true. In those years, dreams to me were to buy myself a skateboard, As the result of my hard work and responsiblity, I made my dream come true on getting what I want it, This shoes how easy it is to make your dreams come true only if you push your self forward, Dreams are not just going to and knock on your door anytime you want or just be waiting for your dream to happen when you haven't done any effor at all. One of my opinions that i give those that I care about the most is to always keee trying no matter what. For example, when looking for a job, you want to give them to say "yes you are hired", when you already know you have a "no" in the other hand. You will need to persuade the person who is interviewing you by giving the impression that you want the job. In other words, aleays go with a positive attitude and never in a negative because you are putting yourself down and the person who is interviewing you. As for me, I am always looking ahead in the future, Whether I have had many obstacles in the and maybe still more to come, I have a positive attitude in making my dream come true. Follow for what you want in life with a positive attitude and have faith for someday all the work you have done will make your dream come true a reality.